Comments on: Who Wears The Pants? http://www.marriage-moments.com/blog-posts/featured-post/who-wears-the-pants/ Daily Ideas, Resources, and Thoughts to Enrich Your Marriage. Mon, 21 Jun 2010 04:13:13 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: cparish http://www.marriage-moments.com/blog-posts/featured-post/who-wears-the-pants/comment-page-1/#comment-26 cparish Fri, 18 Sep 2009 22:37:41 +0000 http://www.marriage-moments.com/?p=529#comment-26 Hi Daphne, Thank you for your candid comments. It is very difficult to get any relationship to changew when only 1/2 of it is doing the work - but it is not impossible. Before I write more, I would like to offer to send you a reply via E-mail if you would like - to protect your privacy. I am happy to converse with you either way - here on the blog or via E-mails, so please just let me know. Blessings, Chuck Hi Daphne,

Thank you for your candid comments. It is very difficult to get any relationship to changew when only 1/2 of it is doing the work – but it is not impossible. Before I write more, I would like to offer to send you a reply via E-mail if you would like – to protect your privacy. I am happy to converse with you either way – here on the blog or via E-mails, so please just let me know.

Blessings,

Chuck

]]> By: Daphne http://www.marriage-moments.com/blog-posts/featured-post/who-wears-the-pants/comment-page-1/#comment-25 Daphne Fri, 18 Sep 2009 21:43:26 +0000 http://www.marriage-moments.com/?p=529#comment-25 If my husband is bent on controlling and being in charge of things and not getting my input on much, where does that leave me? If he is constantly putting his male friends high on his priority list and neglecting his family to cater to them and their families because he is the head of out household, but more importantly the head of that male group and feels he has that right and obligation. How do you suggest that I stop telling others when I have patiently waited for a change and he throws in the occasional "I don't want to have sex" for weeks at a time? I need help. We do. If my husband is bent on controlling and being in charge of things and not getting my input on much, where does that leave me? If he is constantly putting his male friends high on his priority list and neglecting his family to cater to them and their families because he is the head of out household, but more importantly the head of that male group and feels he has that right and obligation. How do you suggest that I stop telling others when I have patiently waited for a change and he throws in the occasional “I don’t want to have sex” for weeks at a time? I need help. We do.

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